It all started back in September or October of this year...
I was thinking that this year for my Dad's 71st birthday I would surprise him by showing up at their door on the eve of his birthday. I spent a fair deal of time searching the Japanese internet for good flights that would offer me some sort of flexibility at economic prices (very hard to do these days). In the end, I opted to get my ticket via Osaka - Detroit - Minneapolis - Winnipeg (NWA) through Carlson Wagonlit Travel, the travel agent my mom and dad have been using for years here in Winnipeg. (photo: street decorations)
I purchased and paid for my non-refundable discount ticket in October... and then the financial sector of the USA tanked, the American and Canadian dollars fell, and the yen rose... Of course had I waited the exchange would have made my flight much cheaper. But had I known this, I would either be in prison due to making millions of dollars on insider information re. the stock market... or I would ... or I would nothing!
I only told a very small group of friends I was doing this. I didn't even tell my brother Bruce who can absolutely keep not one single secret in the world from anyone... however it was Bruce I needed to come and get me at the airport. I had planned for this in advance, of course and told Bruce that I needed him in front of his computer Friday night (Dec 19th) so that I could show him some of the stuff that I was sending to my parents for Christmas, and explain some stuff to him. He was there, waiting for me. (photo: looking down our street... twice the width of Japanese streets)
Vonage (public payphone) in Minneapolis rejected my mastercard... rejected my visa... rejected my american express... and then it was time to board. So...I ended up taking a taxi to the head of the street, paying the cabbie the $35 for the 30 minute drive, and pulled my suitcases up the street at -28C (before windchill adjustments) to the house and rang the doorbell. I didn't want them to accidentally walk past the living room window and see a cab pull up with me getting out as it would ruin the surprise so I did it this way.
When I rang the doorbell, my mom was just about to come upstairs and go to bed. I looked downstairs through the thick plate glass window and smiled. She looked upstairs through the thick plate glass window and was dumbstruck. I guess her brain wouldn't register ME standing there because I was supposed to be in Japan! Well, she suddenly came up the stairs, flung open the door and hugged me as I stepped in. Then the "fight or flight" reflex took hold and she had to run off for a pee! (photo: me walking to Tim Hortons @ -37C... thought I had lost my eyelashes)
Dad came up with a big smile as I handed him his personally delivered birthday bottle of Suntory Old whiskey. He wanted to shake my hand, but I would have nothing to do with that nonsense, so summarily gave him a great big hug.
It isn't nearly as cold here as I had hoped it would be; I want the -40C + windchill bringing it down to the low -80s of my youth, but I guess with global weirding, that is no longer to be...
We just opened the Christmas presents and will have dinner at our friends across our back yard tonight. Tomorrow will be Boxing Day open house and all of my parents' friends will be coming by. I enjoyed this exactly two years ago as well (and then I went down to Fargo to meet with Robin, Adrian and Steph, and subsequently got stuck there an extra night in a snowstorm, if you recall!)
All of this traveling and visiting people in 2008... this is my third trip this year (thus I got a glorious upgrade to first class on the 1.5hr flight from Minneapolis to Winnipeg!!) and I have really had a great time meeting a lot of people. (photo: SuperValu in the neighbourhood... madhouse this time of year)
I have been to Tim Horton's coffee several times to enjoy the coffee and listen to the weird Winnipeg Accents and hear all the Canucks using the word "eh". I have visited Sears and the mall to buy a bunch of towels (we can't get good towels in Japan that last for 20 years like our towels from Canada have). I went to SupeValu to stock up on anti-perspirant (can't get in Japan) and allergy meds (too weak in Japan). I did all this walking back and forth from the house, enjoying the bite of the wind on my face as it tried to crack my exposed skin...and wished for colder weather yet.
This past Sunday I visited my old best friends and their families for brunch. Then we went back to his place and enjoyed a hot tub party in the night at -38C. You can see the video on YouTube, entitled, "http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VDZZvFXYiEY". (photo: Sherry, Brad, Cam @ brunch)
On this trip, I am "stepping into my fear" to meet my high school friends and stop feeling indifferent to them due to the extreme bullying I got during those school years (hardwired into the brain... this time I choose to see things differently). There is an informal gathering of anyone from our graduating year who wants to pop into a (forget) place about 7pm on the 29th. And I intend to just pop in unannounced! Other than that, it is time with family, and time with anyone else who might like to meet with me (I haven't had a chance to contact them all yet but will).
(In case you are wondering where Mayu might be.. she has stuff to do in Tokyo at year end so I'm on my own on this trip. I'm hoping that we don't get too much snow while I'm away over the new year and that is the reason why I worked on the special snow protection before I left.) (photo: blowup penguin street decoration)
The economic situation around the world is really difficult for us all. As strange as it may seem, the collapse of the American Empire has dramatically affected my business in the tiny village in which we have lived for the past 15years. So much, so, that I really don't know if we will even be in Kamishii for the full year next year. It seems that perhaps it is time to leave our Shangri-la and move on... And who knows where the future will lead, right?
I have asked my parents if they might like to come for a visit next May or June when the weather is nice. I know we will be there until June for sure as I have a little bit of contract work that keeps me tied to Fukui. As long as I have work in Fukui we will stay in this home as it is beautiful for the small amount of rent we pay. Sure we could leave it for a tiny apartment somewhere, but the space would be dramatically reduced, and the rent would dramatically increase, so why bother, right? I will see what they say as 2009 rolls in... (photo: my ancestral home, front view)
So with that.. I would like to once again (as I always do), open my home (while we have it) and my heart to anyone and everyone who might like to experience Japan not from a "tourist in a hotel life" perspctive, but from a relaxed, country living view. We could move in and out with ease, wining, dining, laundering (clothing not money), laughing, walking, talking, driving, RELAXING and most of all moving about through time as if we are LIVING and BEING in the NOW moment with no hotel-life restrictions.
I welcome any one of you who might think you would like to visit my beautiful Shangri-la. Feel free to write me privately and let me know you are interested. I would be more than happy to adjust my schedule for you, help plan stuff, and offer you suggestions on the best times to come. I am, and have always been serious. Just as Paula took me up on my suggestion over 2.5 years ago, I hope that in 2009 at least one person out there in our community will say, "Yes, I think I seriously would like to come and see your wonderland, Cam." (photo: essential gear to get to, and enjoy Tim Hortons Coffee every day)
Consider this post a "catalyst", something that gets you started on a new adventure in 2009. I plan to have MANY new adventures in 2009 with many new challenges work-wise and life wise. I hope to grow, and expand physically, mentally, educationally and especially spiritually as I challenge myself to new heights, never-before experienced. That is what life is all about, right? As Mayu so aptly put it recently, it's time we "stopped just sucking air". And I agree. Ever onward, ever upward!!
And on that note, I wish you a most wonderful and Merry Christmas for 2008, I hope your Boxing Days are full of joy, and that on January 1st, 2009 you are not praying to the porcelain gods! (photo: crossing the playground to get to Tim Hortons)
I love you as I always have and always will: UNCONDITIONALLY.
Cam
P.S. If you wish to see more photos, please visit the slideshow on my flckr that is located in my "Christmas 2008 in Winnipeg, Canada" Set.
cold cold cold.
ReplyDeleteCam...... I love you.
Merry Christmas to YOU and your family.... (I loved "meeting" your Mum & Dad yesterday!)
Happy Boxing Day! I hope you get... lots... of boxes?
har
xo
I love you
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ReplyDeletea gift for you and your family
have a spectacular visit full of luv luv and luv!!
Thank you, Stefnee! It was a lot of fun watching all of yours open the gifts I sent you. I especially LOVED LOVED LOVED Scooter's reaction to the gifts for him! It was priceless! I love you!
ReplyDelete(and if you ever want to come and visit me in Japan, please consider it!!!!)
Carrie - Thank you! I love you!
ReplyDelete(and if you ever want to come and visit me in Japan, please consider it!!!!)
XOXOXO
ReplyDeleteBrilliant surprise for your Dad and family, Cam. Good on you!
ReplyDeleteEnjoy your stay and safe journey back to Shangri-la.
Linda - I love you! (notice the book? hmm? hmmm?)
ReplyDeleteRobin - Thanks so much! Thanks for sticking with me through 2008 and I look forward to being around you guys through 2009. I love you!
Yep, I noticed the book.
ReplyDeleteI love you too.
considering july as we speak
ReplyDeletegosh i cant believe i am chatting with you and we are both on the same continent!
though we are about 4 thousand snow miles apart!
ReplyDeleteLOL
I'm considering.
ReplyDeleteSeriously.
I have my moments, eh? ;)
ReplyDeleteTell you Dad I said Happy Birthday!
Very inspiring way to surprise your Dad and Mom for his birthday! I could almost feel the jubilation your mom felt when she looked and saw the smiling face of her son. My prodigal was home just recently and it was wonderful and not even a surprise.
ReplyDeleteHappy holidays to you and your family Cammie.
Love and light to you. :-)))))
Good Stuff!
ReplyDeleteAnd I thought it was cold here....HA!!!
ReplyDeleteI need to go visit my relatives in Elliot Lake, Ontario. Cousins, aunts, uncles....Someday soon.
such a good son you are........the snow looks pretty but you can have it and I'll just look at it from here. Have a great Boxing day!!!!! Ummmmmmm whatever people do on Boxing day.
ReplyDeleteWell, now it is a day to have an open house and partay. And they also have sales at stores... much akin to your "DeathStar Black Fridays". I think. People are weird. Merry Merry Seamus!
ReplyDeleteLinda - Yes! Do it!!! I love you!!!
I sea........Merry Christmas to you too sir......
ReplyDeleteI was invited by The Switzer seniors to come for boxing day...
ReplyDeleteThere's a flight out early.... we'll see.
Then I'll see you tomorrow! And as I am having Tim Horton's at 9am, you are welcome to come! I'll even pick you up early at the airport, bring you back here, and we can walk to Tims.
ReplyDeleteglobetrotters
ReplyDeleteGet thee to the bowling alley!
ReplyDeleteI know.......Im either going Friday or Wednesday. Thats the extent of my globetrotting Im afraid. Im leaning away from Wednesday though. Thats New Years rocking Eve and according to my wife Im very antisocial. So I dont wanna be caught out that evening.
ReplyDeleteWALK????
ReplyDeleteWhy can't you take me directly to TH's?
I don't do well in sub zero temps... i'll cry and my face will freeze and fall off....
What is it with you and walking through the frozen tundra?
Silly Seamus!
ReplyDeleteyou live in joisy.........doesnt it get cold there too?
ReplyDeleteWelcome back to Canada and I bet your Mom and Dad were so happy to see you, That was quite the surprise you pulled on them !!! All that you said in this blog makes me know what a great guy you are and I wish you the best of success next year that you may make all of your dreams come true Love Sharon :)
ReplyDeleteIt builds character... puts hair on your chest... oh. ummm... nevermind.
ReplyDeleteSeamus!
ReplyDeleteget yerself back over to MY place
you cheatin heart you!
HMF
who's gonna give me my new years eve kiss???
wait
ReplyDeleteBoxing Day is an actual holliday??????
for real????
like men hittin each other and all
ReplyDeletefor a holiday???
or are we talking the day you recycle all them christmas boxes??
it's a recycling thing, right???
silly goose..........its boxing day. Its the giving of gifts to less fortunate folks. Yanno, like if you were to give me something............wink
ReplyDeleteoooooohhhhhh
ReplyDeletereally?
less fortunate?
YOU???
hmmm... I gotta think about that
LOL
IM am so very less fortunate.............cant you see its written all over my face
ReplyDeletethat is magic marker
ReplyDeletei am no dumb duckie
You two git on over to your pages...
ReplyDeletei'm here to kiss Cammy goodnight!
Night, SweetCam.
ReplyDeleteOh... have to go say night to your dad... my SweetJim!
Seeya!
guess we better be kissin and tellin at my page Sea
ReplyDeleteJen is gettin celosa
;-)
SMOOTCHES for you to Camster
ReplyDeleteand a big birthday kiss for Dad
and a christmas kiss for Mom
aw bless hw wonderful so glad you made it home have much fun an dmuch love jooslx
ReplyDeleteHappy Boxing Day, Cam! Happy New Year. I love you, too!
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you are safe and well.. and warm.. *hugz*
Yee-gads...lots of activity in these cold temperatures here.
ReplyDeleteJenny, I hope you can go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Have fun y'all.
Beautiful story Cam. Thanks for sharing. Happy Holidays!
ReplyDeleteBleated Merry Christmas Cam to you and your family there in the FREEZING North.....good lord its chilly there... I am cold thinking of it all...
ReplyDeleteBe well...
Happy Boxing day! What a wonderful surprise for your family!
ReplyDeleteI enjoy a TH every morning - it's the best!
I love you guys!!! (back to domesticating... more dishes to wash).
ReplyDeleteAww, you're da bestest!
ReplyDelete-40 Degree Temps and you want more down draught ?? Im shivering just looking at the pics ! I was out taking photographs yesterday and had to randomly cuddle mugs of hot chocolate in road side cafes because it was -3 ..... ok ok so im Welsh and a whimp it would seem ! :0)
ReplyDeleteWe have not seen snow on Boxing Day since the mid - 90's and i cannot remember the last time it snowed on Christmas Day.
Sounds like you gave your parents the best Christmas they could have wished for sneaking in from Japan quietly like that.
I hope 2009 is good to you ..... the economic down turn has hit us here too and business is seemingly quiet, but i am ever the optimist and i do believe things will start to get better again, for all of us i hope. Enjoy the rest of the holidays Cam and safe journey back to that magical mystical country you live in ... Happy New Year from Wales :0)
Thank you, Christopher! I appreciate you, and the time you take to visit. The weather is an uncomfortably warm -17 these days. And as I look at Yahoo Weather, I see there is an entire week of snow in Fukui, probably piling up... I wonder what keiko is not my cat, is doing?
ReplyDeleteFunny seeing you with a wool top on my friend. I would so like to come and see you. The seed has been planted now. Time will tell if that can happen. With all you know is going on in my life, the future is not real clear. But if the chance comes, so shall we. I know you enjoyed showing up on your father and mothers door step with out them knowing. Just seeing the shock in their eyes and the smile on their face must have rocked the world. I think I must have felt it the other day. How cool and the best present you could give. Sorry Mayu couldn't be there. She would have offered us a third person view of you and family. LOL could have been a blast! Merry Christmas you and your family. Stay warm. I still have land in fairbanks if you want to reach for that -40 or worse in a tent. LOL Happy new year!
ReplyDeleteRandy - I tried -40C in a tent with huge down (military) sleeping bags. It was a two person tent, and my girlfriend (of the time) and my best friend and I snowmobiled out to an island on the lake with my two person tent. Our plan was to try and tough it out all snuggled together... It didn't work. We froze our asses off, gave up and came back a few hours later in the dark. I'm surprised my girlfriend didn't dump me after that... she came from Trinidad & Tobago (i.e. the caribbean!)
ReplyDeleteYeah! LOL I know I would have hell to pay.... Wait it did happen to me too. I took Celeste on a camping trip at Black rapids in alaska. When we got there to the camping spot it was a balmy +10, but once the sun went down, so did the temp. It dropped to -50 something that night. We had + 20 sleeping bags. We tried to eat some deer meat for dinner. But after it was freezing before we could put it in our mouths. We went for fire heated Gran Marinier from the bottle. It was the only way we could stay warm, well beside holding on to each other very close. I had to get up and walk out to where the car was and start it every 3 or 4 hours all night. I lost 20lbs that night and c lost 15 just trying to stay thawed. LOL what a trip.
ReplyDeleteThis was while we were still happy. LOL before the sun went down.
ReplyDeleteThis was after a very long night. LOL can't believe she stayed with me after that.
by the way that was what she slept in.
ReplyDeleteHave you ever felt a frozen female ass? I did. Could have cooled a drink with that, butt that is a hole nother story.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing your wonderful holiday! Here's to a fantastic 2009!
ReplyDeleteWow! Randy, you and Celeste look awesome in these photos!
ReplyDeleteI love you Amy!
It just sounds way too cold ! I was out today taking pictures in -5 with a tee-shirt, a hooded jacket, an ordinary jacket and an over coat together with two hats !!! -40 / -50 just sounds way too cold for words, however i would love to experience it even if it did numb my arse !! :0)
ReplyDeleteha ha ha a bit younger
ReplyDeleteChris - those temperatures... hard to explain... other than to say, they are beyond cold, beyond numb... truly... you experience PAIN. Right Randy?
ReplyDeletethat is a very true statement
ReplyDeleteRandy!!!
ReplyDeleteWhat a couple of hotties you two ... um... wer...err are.... welll...
Cool pics, Dude!!!
Bye!
susan can now begin to comprehend that camping trip...
ReplyDeletewe've been taking time to breathe~staying in a camper at the family tree farm.
low so far was 0 F
waste natural gas heats a boiler system i built,keeping the camper toasty
she's adjusting well for a liverpool native ;)
and yes..the female bum can get quite cold *grins*
ReplyDeleteof course there are solutions for that
and on the business side....see my last blog
ReplyDeleteglobal effect may spin an opportunity your way
can you capitalize on any of the upcoming??
(got more-throw me a pm if you like,and i'll spit some ideas your way)
spitwad fight in a snowstorm :)
Hermit - Awesome. First of all I must figure out who the heck you are!
ReplyDeleteMy eldest has travelled to Scotland this morning, he says its -11 at the moment, the ice age returns !!! :0) Happy New Year Cam !
ReplyDeleteAnd to you, Christopher!
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